my wife hates anything to doo with the birds and as far as im concerned it can stay that way she's invoved enough with her own hobbies when she's running about doing washing,ironing,cooking,cleaning,looking after the 2 kids,looking after my choc lab,and managing her office 9 to 5 monday to friday and only moans about it once or three times a day and i thought she enjoyed it still she has time for a bottle of wine on friday night ma little honey.ps remember whats written on the forum stays on the form.(hehe)(hehe)