hi m8 soz to hear about grandmother . i work as a carer if u r funding a care home yourself u will have to ring around homes to find 1 that has spaces but b prepared as they cost in the region of approx £700 to £ 800 per week for 24hr care. alternatively u will have to apply to social services as they may fund it if grandmother doesnt own her own home.also if grandmother can do a few bits herself or can b on her own a bit in the day u could apply for home carers through social services or private company as this is what i do for a living and i have a few ladies and gents that have final stages of dementia . i hope this hlps if u need to chat pls feel free to pm me m8 . best of luck m8 clive